Address your husband's childhood!!!!!

  Address your husband's childhood!!!!!

wandering eyes? Or even stingy?

These are all qualities that make life completely unbearable for men who possess them

Only the smartest can cope with it

Psychology experts confirm that every man even has a child inside him

Even if he is a broad-shouldered or muscular man, hence

They advise you to address his childhood before addressing him as a man

Children, although dealing with them is not an easy matter, but they are there

There are many ways you can convince them of what you want

This is exactly what you should do with your dear husband.

Here are the advice of researchers and experts for this

Make him ashamed of himself

If your husband is negligent in household matters

Do not compare or calibrate him to others, as the method of comparison is very wrong

Dealing with this child inside him

Avoid complaining in front of his family or your family that he is negligent.

Just constantly remind him of household requests in a way that makes him ashamed of himself

And tell him that you were very embarrassed in front of his sister today when you asked

A handkerchief, and there were no handkerchiefs in the house

Another time, tell him that you pity your friend

Because her husband is negligent in his household demands

Deal with his negativity intelligently

As long as you accept marriage to a negative man,

Do not blame him for his negativity and always remember that he may have been exposed to circumstances

During his childhood and adolescence, it made him negative against his will

Explore what he can do and what he is capable of being

Focus your efforts on stimulating his activity and abilities.

Tell him, for example, that you can go confront a teacher who abused your child

But you prefer that he go so that you do not have to argue with the teacher

Avoid making him nervous

Beware of reciprocating a nervous husband, as your nervousness will be devastating

For your life together, and be careful not to address him while he is in his nervous phase.

Nervousness is a nature that is not easy to change, so decode things little by little

Which makes him take a nervous stance,

Try to change it as much as you can, and make sure that it is the perfect solution for your husband

Nervous is to avoid his excitement

Therefore, use the maneuvering method as you use it with your child.

Just as children forget their nervousness with a piece of candy

In a nice word, men are like that

Do not despair of his silence

Do not despair of his silence or of trying

Start talking to him and ask more questions about his work

And about what he encountered in his day

Ask for details even if they don't interest you

Be a good listener and make sure to express your listening

With different emotions that encourage him to continue talking

Know that a talkative person is one who has found an ear to hear him and emotions that encourage him

 

Learn to extinguish his jealousy

Jealousy is evidence of love, but extreme jealousy becomes annoying.

The best way is to avoid what triggers it

If you are exposed to any situation that arouses his jealousy, extinguish the fire of his jealousy

Avoid looking at him if you are with a group of people

When you return home, avoid clashing with him

Tell him later that you didn't mean to make him angry

And that man who opposed you insulted himself in front of people

He does not deserve to cause any problems between you

Rest assured that over time he will be able to express his jealousy better

Stubbornness breeds grumpiness

Stubbornness is more like a trait than a nature

However, a smart wife will not be unable to tame this innate nature.

First, do not act as a psychological counselor with your husband and give him lessons

How to get rid of stubbornness.

There are specialists in the field of marital relations who have come up with

A study says that the best times to talk to men are

It is early in the morning, when the male hormone is “testosterone”.

At its highest rates

He will be more willing to listen to opinions, receive information, and more

Openness to hear the other opinion, even if it is oppositional

Always take advantage of the morning to tame his stubbornness and adherence to a position

What you want to change about him,

Use a smile and kind words to let him know you are ready

To satisfy his desires

But you would be very happy if his attitude were different

Control your nervousness

First, learn to count to 100 when your husband compliments any woman

He or she is joking in front of you with a picture that bothers you, and do not react hastily

Wait for you to come home, prepare him a meal that he likes, and go inside

To his heart through his stomach

Tell him that his behavior today upset you, even though you are confident of his intentions.

Another time, your eyes might fill with tears as he jokes with a colleague

He has a way that bothers you

Make sure he sees these tears and tell him when he asks you about them

That you were annoyed by his teasing of her,

But don't hold him accountable. He will be as careful as a child other times

The child will always be careful not to repeat the behavior that caused his mother to shed tears

And your husband will also be with you

You did not marry the knight of your dreams

In order for the negative effects of your husband’s character to be less severe on your psyche,

Keep in mind that there is no perfect person.

You did not marry the knight of dreams, and no woman will do that.

The knight of dreams is what we create with our love and outlook on positive things

Always try to turn a blind eye to negative matters before the eyes.

Always learn to love what you find, not to find what you love.

This will make your life, wife, more loving and happier

Acquire your social skills

Clinical psychology consultant Dr. Maysoon Odeh confirms -

According to what was reported in Sayidaty magazine

It is often the case that problems occur between spouses

Due to the lack of skills by one or both spouses

Communication or problem-solving skills,

Or controlling anger, or using these skills incorrectly.

Odeh confirms that social skills definitely help improve

Communication skills between spouses, such as the wife not criticizing her husband,

Do not excite him

In short, these skills include things like: What do I say?

How to say? When do I say? She adds:

A large percentage of problems between spouses in our time are

Communication problems that persist over time hurt the couple

To each other, they came to the point of losing trust and respect.

That is, the stage of lack of understanding, and since the majority of men in our Eastern societies have a special nature,

It greatly limits their initiative to communicate and their ability to control their anger.

The wife here has an important role in taking control.

For example, there are phrases that the wife may use

 

In a certain tactful and good manner,

It reduces the occurrence of a problem, while the same phrases if said

In another way, she may create confusion in the marital relationship, such as saying to her husband

After he calms down:

“I know you were angry, but you hurt me.”

An intelligent wife can recognize situations in...

The habit makes her husband calm down and she knows when she can talk to him again

Your criticism is the reason for his silence

On the other hand, marital relations experts assure you

Maybe you are the reason for your husband's negative behavior

The most important thing a man suffers from with a wife who is very critical is domestic mutism.

Experts say that most men are in dire need

To reveal what weighs on their chests, e.g

Not that most of them are afraid of being ostracized or rejected, as women are

They are good at criticizing them

So they are worried that if they reveal their feelings they will be retaliated against

With ridicule, they become outcast and embarrassed

Know well, dear wife

Not passing judgment on your partner allows him to reveal to you what

On his mind, especially if you want to hear what he has to say.

Know well that a man is not the same man at all times.

Rather, it varies from time to time in his life -

Or even from time to time during the week or day.

Allow him to show himself to you in all his different aspects

To reveal what weighs on their chests, e.g

Not that most of them are afraid of being ostracized or rejected, as women are

They are good at criticizing them

So they are worried that if they reveal their feelings they will be retaliated against

With ridicule, they become outcast and embarrassed

Know well, dear wife

Not passing judgment on your partner allows him to reveal to you what

On his mind, especially if you want to hear what he has to say.

Know well that a man is not the same man at all times.

Rather, it varies from time to time in his life -

Or even from time to time during the week or day.

Allow him to show himself to you in all his different aspects